The key to creating what you want is first, knowing what you want. Obvious, right?
Yet so many people say they haven’t got a clue what they want.
I don’t believe them.
Everyone knows what they want. I’d go so far as to say, what you truly, deeply desire is pre-wired in you. Not destined, which implies it will happen in spite of you, but imbeded like a navigational setting designed to keep you on course. You are never given a desire without the capacity to reach it.
So why then do so many of us feel stumped when asked, what do you want?
The biggest reason is a preoccupation with the How. When we think a dream is impossible it becomes invisible to us. When a desire arises people immediately jump to how is it possible, how to go from here to there, and are met with a lot of ??? and beliefs that block them. Then fear, as frustration, disappointment, lack, expands. Fear is a very uncomfortable feeling and rather than experience it we often abandon whatever preceded it, even our own desires.
Leave the how alone.
Nurture the what – your deep desires. Follow your nose. Let your curiosity guide you and watch the how unfold.
Once you realize your only job is to make room for your desires, you can get really clear about what they are. Feel them, hear them, sense them, taste them, and bring them to life in your heart. Then, hand them to your mind and let your body create them.
Always start with what you want, and know how will always reveal itself.
